Wow. As scary as it would be to see a parent like that, I can't imagine how it would be to not be able to distract yourself afterwards with PORNY McBONDAGE PORN. (But, seriously, *hugs*). It's - it's weird, because my family Doesn't Talk About Things, so reading that fic and sort of getting smacked in the face with the fact that not talking about it doesn't make it go away was surprising.

Bright side: I'm thinking of getting snake bites before I go off to grad school! Or maybe spider bites again (two on the same side). And I think piercings and tattoos're hot, too (THAT'S WHY I GOT 'EM)! I don't have nipple rings, but I knew a lady (BIBLICALLY, IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN *NUDGE NUDGE WINK WINK*) who did - and OMG. YES. ALL THE TIME.